As I think about the many years I have been married, and many
things I
have survived through it all, I have at times ask wy I stay. Simply pt
deep down I do love him despite his faults and closed mindedness. He is
my best friend and lots of time that overrides everything else in life.
Knowing he will be there for me to listen , even if he doesn't agree,
the respect he usually gives me.
Why do I do what I do,
because I have needs he cannot meet, and I am not that old. Something
inside of me dies without the sex satisfaction in my life. So I enjoy
my friends, quietly and discreetly, then come home and be the wife he
needs to be.
Who is to tell what is right or wrong. I am sure
many of you have your opinions of what I do. But you aren't me and I am
very unique. I don't think conjointly, never have , never will.
What exactly does "hot wife" mean? Well, it's a playful term used to describe a married woman who engages in consensual sexual relationships outside of her marriage, with her husband's knowledge and approval. The husband, in this arrangement, doesn't have affairs himself.
The concept of hotwifing stems from the idea of a husband proudly showcasing and sharing his attractive wife. It's related to the cuckolding fetish, although not all husbands in these relationships identify as cuckolds or hot-wifers.
What sets hotwifing apart from cheating is the element of consent. In a hotwife arrangement, the husband is fully supportive and aware of his wife's extramarital activities. Sometimes, the husband even derives arousal from the situation due to factors like voyeurism, the thrill of breaking taboos, or a fetish for infidelity and/or jealousy.
Hotwifing isn't exactly the same as swinging since only one partner is involved in extramarital encounters. However, open communication and trust between both partners are crucial. For this arrangement to work, both partners must willingly participate. Problems can arise if one partner becomes uncomfortable with non-monogamy or if one feels pressured into participating against their will.
In some instances, hotwifing may not even involve actual affairs. For some couples, it's more of a playful role-play or fantasy exploration related to infidelity.
The term "hot wife" gained prominence online in the mid-1990s, primarily on swingers and exhibitionist wifelovers message boards. It further spread through personal ads in late 1997, with husbands seeking to proudly showcase their hot wives.
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If
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Until you grow up, that it...
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Starting by how you treat your woman or women in general!!!
Women
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her as she is, without seeing images from porn films in your head.
Respect, man...
If you accept strong sexuality, she might accept
hers easier. It this world it's not such an easy thing, so encourage
her... nicely, without pressure.
Remember, behind a sexy sexual woman there's always a good
lover!!! Someone who puts her in the first place.
Egoist lovers never produce good lovers or sexy women!!
How
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Touch
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difference between fast food and slow food
And btw:
if
you insist she's wearing heels, sexy clothes etc, what are you doing
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inherited from your grandpa? Unsexy undies? Hands dirty? Bad breath,
smelling like an ashtray or whiskey jar? You know a modern invention
called shower and soap??
Not so uncommon to meet guys like that.. not exaggerating now (for once
)
If
married and not getting any, how is the everyday life then? Is she
doing all at home? No hobbies? No time for friends? Just staying home
with kids?? No wonder if she's not too interested in sex or taking care
of her... who would be after all the piles of laundry and food...
Do
things together... prepare... even for moments together... Your partner
should be no less than your colleagues or business contacts... make
time for her...
PREPARE!!! Like it was something for work or hobbies.
And
why not, test how the stereotype things like wine and candles and bath
work... Take her to dinner or arrange a picnic... Do things in a way
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It's all about the attitude... your attitude too.
This is a genuine lesbian relationship that has alot of intensity for now but will fizzle out soon enough. And this amazing kind man is so displaced as he can clearly see for himself , like the rest of us & even admitted of how the 2 women are so sexed up for each other as he sits there looking so confused why he got a peck on the lips after he saw their kisses linger. I hope he divorces her and meets his true love as I am confident she is on the horizon. Sure it's hard for him as the wife , for some reason, wants him to accept it and be the 3rd wheel. Uggh. But one thing, he admitted that he is healing from a head injury so once he does, hopefully takes off and doesn't look back.
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